How I find Happiness in Loneliness?

     I AM HAPPY WHEN I AM ALONE   

                           -Aks Fatima

                

I have noticed one thing in my life that I am happier when I am alone because then I meet with myself, talk to myself, learn from my mistakes and try to understand myself.

No matter how busy I am i always use to give at least 5 minutes to myself and when I meet with myself, I do realize that this is my life and only i have to make it better so go and work hard and this feeling is enough for me to achieve my destination. When I feel sad I bring myself to the moments that make me happy and I don't get that happiness by sitting or talking with someone else that's why I feel more comfortable when I meet with myself.

When I sit alone I recall everything what happened in my life and what is happening….And really when I asked these questions from myself I get answers to every question easily and then I understand very well what should I do next.

Today by sharing all this I just want to say to you all that identify yourself, to question yourself and try to understand yourself because no one really no one can know you better than yourself  and when you really understand yourself then any situation comes in life, you will be able to fight it alone so take out some time for yourself, talk to yourself and be happy in yourself and then may be you don't need any friend.

When you are alone and you don’t feel lonely:

1. Then it means that you are your best friend and best master.

2. You have sound discipline and value the fragility of life and time. Hence you have very little respect for people who are not punctual.

3. You enjoy and value your own company. You take yourself out to dates, to movies or a walk even in order to know yourself better.

4. That when you are confronted you will defend yourself with dignity. Soon you will realize that with maturity comes a certain grace with being in your own company.

5. You are learning how to be an ambivert. You are also learning the wisdom of enjoying your solitude. It means that you will never be dependent on anything or anyone. You are now practicing how to stand on your own feet.

6. When you are with a company you will have by now understood how valuable your energy is. You will begin to priorities conserving your energy instead of wasting it.

BEFORE MAKING YOUR OWN IDENTITY, IT IS IMPORTANT TO IDENTIFY YOURSELF.

Thank you!😊