You Can't Always Change The Circumstances, But You Can Change Your Attitude. - Aks Fatima

I'm confident there are some incidents and circumstances in your life that you'd like to change. It is frequently very simple to make changes, but we allow carelessness, procrastination, or fear to get our way. You might be surprised to learn that many of the changes you want to make are within your grasp, and in many cases, within your immediate grasp.

For e.g., you may always complain that you don't get enough time to read a book If reading is so essential to you, what's so difficult about organizing your day to make time for it? 

You can always wake up a half-hour sooner in the morning or give up half an hour of TV watching to read a book.

Do you want to learn a new language, or a new skill and want to set up your room?  These are simple goals to achieve, but you may always find reasons why you don't have time for them. You simply do not prioritize them and prefer to remain in your comfort zone.

We may come across situations and circumstances that we are unable to change. How should we handle such situations? Accept and learn to live with a situation that you cannot change. Yes, self-discipline and inner strength are required.

You may be unhappy and complain, resent the situation and the people involved. This will not help to change the situation, and you will cause yourself distress and pain.

Circumstances cannot always be changed.

"Although changing external situations and circumstances are not always possible, changing your attitude is". [Try to remember this sentence by reading it several times.] You may not always be able to change situations or circumstances, but you can definitely learn to shift your mindset.

You can learn to be patient, accept the situation, and not fight it instead of feeling angry, disappointed, and frustrated. You can try to look at the situation objectively and see what you can learn from it.

• Are there coworkers with whom you disagree?
• Do you have any unpleasant neighbors?
• Is your boss overbearing?
• Are you unhappy with your Partner?
• Will you quit your job or relocate as a result of this?

Accepting the situation will often make it go away, or a solution will present itself.

Various situations and circumstances may be lessons that you must learn, and once you have learned and acknowledged the lessons, the situations and circumstances will begin to change.

Accepting What Cannot Be Changed

Accepting what you can't change and learning to live with it will make it less of an issue and less of a bother.

Accepting what you cannot change saves you a lot of energy and time, allowing you to devote your time to more important things than worrying about the situation you cannot change.

When you accept what you cannot change, sometimes, seemingly miraculously, things begin to change and improve.

Some may misunderstand what I've said and believe that accepting a situation means giving up. Others may see acceptance as an excuse to be lazy and do nothing. This could not be further from the truth.

Accepting situations, you can't change is wisdom, not apathy. It has nothing to do with giving up and should never be used as an excuse for apathy.

You can't change the past and feeling guilty and feeling bad about it won't make it go away. You can, however, learn to let go of the past and move on.

How to Transform Your Attitude

If you dislike one of your coworkers and do not get along with him, resentment and anger will not help. You can, however, try to be friendly and stop being angry.

Assume it's raining outside, but you have to go to work, the grocery store, or meet friends. The rain cannot be stopped, and you cannot fight the rain. Would you rather give up and stay at home, or put on a raincoat and brave the elements?

Will anger and unhappiness change the weather if it's very hot outside and you need to go somewhere? You can allow thoughts about the weather to cause you pain and anguish, or you can accept it and move on.

The Significance of Attitude Change

When you shift your mindset toward people, situations, or circumstances, they cease to bother you and cause you pain.

When you shift your attitude, you begin to feel better, happier, and more aware of opportunities for change.

When you shift your attitude, the situations or circumstances that you could not change begin to change.

Is there anything you can do to help you change your attitude? Yes, there are, for example, affirmations, visualization, and developing inner peace.

Thank you for reading!